Neatness as in the physical appearance of the two parties in wedlock has an impact on all aspects of marriage. For this single reason, neatness is fundamental. It has a direct influence on spouses’ attraction. As a matter of fact, appearing neat is good, but not sufficient in marriage. Rather,It has bearing on every sphere of marital life. Basically, a healthy and sound relationship is predicated on the general neatness in marriage, an activity that reflects a way of life.
At any rate, avoid appearing older than your age in marriage. Appearing to attract your bedmate is an essential element to strengthen love in marriage life. So, it is important to always appeal to your spouse through your appearance. Of a fact, couples must guide against dirtiness or unkept appearance capable of putting off their partners in love. Consequently, the status of underwear and other related items is important. Carelessness in this aspect is a prime element of dislike at first contact with a supposed partner.
Physical appearance
Normally, appearing neat and elegant attracts people’s attention. Even in marriage, one can always be respected and adored for this, single, habit. So, it covers not only clothes and makeup. Many things are often responsible for one to stand out in appearance. The selection of suitable materials and combinations to fit is important. Also, facial makeup sometimes requires a professional touch to reflect a good match. Then what happens to shoes and bags? And above all, in women, hairstyle deserves good treatment to reflect cleanliness and beauty. More so, this counts much on the four reasons why women cherish their hair.
Neatness is, practically, a lifestyle, particularly for those who believe in dressing and appearing good at all times. On the part of men, appearing neat and smart at all times makes a real man.
To a large extent, neatness opens up opportunities to attract and be easily noticed by people. Therefore, a neat fellow remains receptive and usually attractive to the opposite sex. Normally, lovers prefer to hold on to the neat and caring fellow compared with a person of a less attractive appearance.
Management of household cleaning and upkeep
In marriage, the management of household cleaning is paramount. And it takes a neat fellow to keep and maintain a healthy environment. In some homes, it is a daily routine. An activity of priority. Though, this depends largely on time—more reasons why an activity of this nature is often scheduled to hold on weekends.
However, to maintain a standard in this regard, both parties must be involved. The fact remains that cleaning is a responsibility, it doesn’t matter who does it. At times the activity may rest, more, on the wife. Well, this depends on many factors. What is important is to carry out the activity. The commendation is solely for both, after all.
Household items are objects that are subject to a regular arrangement and setting. Therefore leaving them in disarray shows that no proper attention is given to such activity. Hence the apartment looks unkempt. And this does not connote neatness on the part of the couple.
Kitchen/dining room management
Apart from physical appearance, giving adequate attention to the kitchen is a priority. A moderate equipt and neat kitchen often facilitate kitchen activities. Really, a neat kitchen guarantees the hygienic position of the kitchen from where meals are served.
The dining room likewise demands appropriate attention in order to put things in place. Importantly, the dining set is a source of attraction and interest to some visitors. Normally, dining does add colour to the general appearance of a home.
Toilet maintenance
Practically, a concerted effort is necessary, in order to keep a toilet healthy. Of course, the bathroom is private to the family. But then, visitors do have reason to visit the same toilet. Mainly if there is no one designated for visitors. Regular cleaning of the toilet is a prerequisite to prevent toilet infection.
Keeping the immediate environment clean
By extension, the immediate environment demands attention in terms of tidiness. The state of a surrounding is a true reflection of how neat the inhabitants are. How tidy an environment is and the manner in which waste is handled is relevant. In any case, neatness is godliness, and as such neatness in marriage is a good way of life.
My name is Muyideen Elemoro. I am a Nigerian from Ibeju -Lekki Local government in Lagos State. I reside in Abuja, Nigeria.
I am a retired Civil Servant. Presently, I am a marketer and Blogger.
Essentially I write on marital and other related issues. I engage, as a part-time, in Marriage seminar and other related issues.
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