Creating an impression
First impression matters in life. It attracts immediate rating by anyone you come in contact with, especially at first time. Appearance for instance determine the way others will perceive you. There is how somebody will appear that will make people embrace him. Still some appearance can scare others and decide not to embrace. So appearance should be seen as something important in a marital life. Therefore choosing to appear elegant at all times is one thing, but to appear simple and pleasing matters. Irrespective of how you perceive it, ensure that you impress your spouse through appearance. With this you have created attraction.
Appeal to your spouse through appearance
Let your appearance be pleasing to your spouse particularly at home. With this act, an impression is created already, She knows that her husband is at all time presentable. I have witnessed a wife talking rudely to her spouse for his appearance. According to the young woman, they were both invited to attend an end of year party. A party that brought together many important personalities across a state. She claimed that her spouse did not listen to her advice to be in his best. But the husband never saw any reason for appearing too elegant at the occasion. He undermined the occasion and his appearance was below standard displayed by other men. So she didn’t like it.
Having a dressing code for occasions is a good practice, Even at home, let there be code. Dressing code in this case depends largely on individual. This has to do with how people perceive it. Everyone knows what his/ her spouse likes.Go ahead and do things that will make your spouse to be impressed about your appearance. All of these have to do with appearance to create impression. Charity begins from home, let us satisfy our spouses through simple and attractive appearance. This will make your spouse to be much more pleased with you. Most men come back home from work earlier because of their wives appearance among others things. Have a good understanding of you spouse to be able to please him.
Encourage your spouse to improve in appearance
Encouraging your spouse to improve in his/her appearance is not out of place. What is really necessary is our ability and method adopted to achieve this purpose. Most a time it is very possible that our spouses would be too busy to notice appearance. More reason why you are duty bound to advise and encourage your spouse to do the needful in this direction. When our spouses appear decent, pleasing and delighting we tend to appreciate them. Sometimes this can make one to appreciate his spouse by inviting her for shopping.
When this concept is properly put to practice, you are indirectly strengthen love. In a way, you are displaying your beauty so that your spouse can appreciate. After some time your spouse will be forced to thinks about you all the time. He/she would like to reciprocate.
