Rejuvenate love and place it on the old pedestrian
Refreshment of an existing love is a concept that re-awaken marital relationship. It rejuvenates love and, place it back on the initial pedestrian. With this idea, couple can now begin to perceive themselves like it was on the first day. Irrespective of age in marriage, relationship can still be re -fertilized to wax stronger. Age shouldn’t be a barrier, in efforts to refresh love. Therefore refreshment of an existing love in marital life, is an ultimate way of re- candling love after sometimes in marriage.
Marital life is normally in stages. The initial stage comes with blissful experience.At this stage, couple are full of happiness and people rejoice with them. They are often allowed to manage their marital life without any form of interference. Honeymoon is an exiting experience, no third party. With emphasis, the young couple are new and full of active strength. Usually at this stage, they manage themselves with an unwavering love and understanding. No complain, unless at some extreme cases of unpleasantness.
Health and physical appearance of couple
A critical level is when they are rearing children. At this stage, experience vary. Ranging from antenatal care to the time of delivery. Medical challenges and other associated problems are peculiar to this stage. The nurturing of baby and all necessary medication and medical advice is basic. Coping with nursing of children, household duties and official work can be so hectic. All these are, usually, responsible for the weakness and untimely worn-out of couple. Particularly in women. And this happens when they are not supported. Ideally men should be responsible enough to support their spouses, essentially to reduce the stress of household duties.
With the above explanation. it can be established that a lot has happened to the health and physical appearance of couple. Particularly, with the passage of time. By this, they are no longer young in the business of marriage. And as responsibility is getting bigger, so they are becoming occupied in the mind. At this stage, most likely some couple are no longer mindful of their appearance. Possibly, passion for love is diminishing by the day. Except it is efficiently put under control, social life can be affected.
Why considering yourself old
Some women are in the category of dressing like old ones, because they are training children. Responsibility to train children should not have any adverse effect on our appearance. Our social life should be well maintained and managed to keep our marriage fit. Carelessness on this aspect, gives our spouse chance to look after others in the neighbourhood. The fact that we are not growing younger is not a liberty to appear awkward. Remember that some women are at the top gear of their social life, Be refreshed that marriage is an institution that gives respect to seasoned and marital experience. So why do you consider yourself an old woman? And as a father why do you choose to dress carelessly?
Steps in love refreshment
Agree and accept in your mind that you are younger. — this gives you the opportunity to think and align yourself with the modern ways of doing things. By this you are shifted away from analogue. Automatically you have adopted digital and, you are good to go.
Reject old fashion. — Put aside your old way of doing things first. This will enable you to change or improve on your focus of doing things in a modern way.
Improve on your intake — Eat more of fruits and vegetables. Avoid or reduce fat. Go after anti aging natural food. Prepare and present better food for the family.
Makeup is optional — If you must make up, then be moderate.
Change your dressing to modern way. — You will be more concerned about appearance. And this has to do with dressing. Be mindful of the kind of clothes, shoes and bag you use. .Avoid colour riot. You need to be moderate in all.
Tidy up — Be neat and tidy at all time. This includes your home and environment.
Everything about social life is packaging, Adjust to suit the modern ways of doing things. By this practice, your spouse will appreciate your appearance. .
My name is Muyideen Elemoro. I am a Nigerian from Ibeju -Lekki Local government in Lagos State. I reside in Abuja, Nigeria.
I am a retired Civil Servant. Presently, I am a marketer and Blogger.
Essentially I write on marital and other related issues. I engage, as a part-time, in Marriage seminar and other related issues.
2 comments
Nice write sir, I appreciate it. Women needs to always keep up with their husbands. Taking good care of ones self is good business as far as am concerned. Please keep the advice coming.