Men are not likely to satisfy the sexual urges of their lovers

Men are not likely to satisfy the sexual urges of their lovers, in some cases. Certain factors work against men’s performance. In such a situation, a man’s action will attract no commendation from his partner. Meaning that his partner does not appreciate his efforts in sex. In the first place, sex is meant for the enjoyment of both parties. However, for unwholesome reasons, this activity is sometimes not being carried out effectively. As a result, the relationship is somewhat affected. Therefore, men are not likely to satisfy the sexual urges of their lovers owing to certain factors against their performance.

Generally, a number of reasons are responsible for such poor performance. Some are traceable to health challenges, while others depend on the state of mind and emotion. At any rate, circumstances surrounding sexual capacity are critical. Ranging from romance, all through satisfaction in both parties is relevant for a healthy relationship. Consequently, a failure in the area of intercourse usually brings about complaints and dissatisfaction in marriage. Notwithstanding, sex is seen as a machinery for settling a marital dispute

Causes of poor performance in sex

The obvious reasons responsible for weak performance or outright failure in bed can be divided into three. Such division will reflect a clear view of the constituents in each of the variables. Depending on the causes, the remedy in some cases is not within the control of the affected party. Particularly where the challenge bothers health. In that case, a physician is needed for necessary attention and medications. Otherwise, some specific therapies and certain traditional treatments can help.

Poor sex performance on health ground

Normally, sex is predicated on sound health. Therefore, ill health will, no doubt, contribute to poor performance. The required energy to satisfy the functionality of the organ is consequently hindered. And the entire process is affected, on the part of the sick fellow. Medically, both parties must be healthy to perform and enjoy sex.

It should be noted that apart from infections on the part of sex organs, other health challenges affect performance on both sides. For instance, a headache or feverish condition can be detrimental to the general well-being of the body. Therefore, it results in poor performance in sex.

Poor performance due to mental state and emotional feelings

The mental state and emotional feelings of both parties are relevant to effective sex in marital life. Therefore, all issues or reasons bothering both emotional strain and concentration affect sexual activities. Under the following conditions, no man can satisfy his partner.

• Poor performance due to mental state and emotional feelings – It is a situation that causes worry and tension in man. So, the occurrence of tension in any capacity has a direct impact on his performance. Having sex under a distressed condition is quite unhealthy. And both parties can hardly enjoy sex under such circumstances.
• Tiredness – This usually happens when the energy required to perform is exhausted. Both physical and mental work often result in tiredness, thereby affecting sexual activities. Tiredness will make a man quit on time without driving home his lover.
• Discouragement – Real satisfaction cannot be achieved when a man suddenly gets discouraged while in action. Certain actions or statements from his lover can occasionally put a man off. And when this happens he consequently begins to experience a retro-activeness in his performance.
• Lack of interest – Performance can be affected when there is no interest before commencement. An instance where a man reluctantly engages in a sexual activity. The engagement will not be satisfactory.
• Troubled mind – Lack of concentration often sets in when a man is upset. He becomes worried and as such finds it difficult to control his emotions. Sadly, the expected concentration and the required action wax cold.

When your partner shows outright dislike

Certain reasons are responsible for an action and inaction of your lovers during sex. And, this has a direct impact on your feeling and reaction as the case may be. A partial or total dislike is often displayed when she is not pleased with the exercise. For this reason, the sexual activity is not encouraging and the party is not satisfied. It, therefore, reveals why men are not likely to satisfy the sexual urges of their lovers.

• Poor response from the partner – At times, the poor performance is because there is no corresponding reaction from their spouses. Sex activities normally require action and reaction from both sides. Otherwise, one of the parties will experience dissatisfaction in love. Sex is normally construed as lovers’ activity involving effective action and response from both parties. Of course, it takes two to tangle. Under normal circumstances, sex without rocking and falling does not reflect the real glamour. Something is lacking.
• When the other party is not comfortable with the sex arrangement – The party that is not comfortable will, in the process, display disappointment. This connotes intense dislike. Therefore, the entire exercise is rendered frustrated. And none of the parties will enjoy the fun. Sex satisfaction is about commitment and unwavering concentration. Therefore, it is the responsibility of both parties to care for each other satisfaction in love. It is naive for anyone to think that one party is saddled with this responsibility. In most cases, men seem to be the initiator. But may not necessarily be the main driving force in the entire process.
• .To have sex under duress – Having sex against the wish of your lover is cruel. Usually, the sincere consent of the two parties is a significant ingredient necessary to enjoy the expected bliss of sex. Otherwise, the affected party will record dissatisfaction which can result in hatred.
• When romance is absolutely lacking – Usually, both parties will not have a good experience when sex does not proceed with a romantic condition. Practically a more romantic relationship is beneficial to a healthy marriage. Often a man has a good commendation from his spouse, each time the activity is good.

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My name is Muyideen Elemoro. I am a Nigerian from Ibeju -Lekki Local government in Lagos State. I reside in Abuja, Nigeria.
I am a retired Civil Servant. Presently, I am a marketer and Blogger.
Essentially I write on marital and other related issues. I engage, as a part-time, in Marriage seminar and other related issues.

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