Developing better understanding
A powerful and fundamental principle that usually helps to maintain peace and harmony is to develop a robust understanding. Having a considerable level of understanding about anyone you are dealing with is essential. It provides you with, a clear view about the nature and concept of your colleagues, friends, partners, spouse etc. So at every point in time one can possible predicts his next action. By this you can avoid those things which he does not like. Hence you maintain a long lasting friendship. Therefore to achieve this, you need to establish and maintain peace and love through understanding. All in the interest of harmony
This principle is better applied in a marital setting. When you have a sound and robust understanding about your spouse, a lot of issues can be prevented. And if ugly issue are prevented, the chance of having blissful environment is great. For when you know those things she doesn’t like, you can always prevent them in the interest of peace and love.
Likelihood of misunderstanding
In any situation or environment where people have relative understanding of themselves, things are likely to work accordingly. However, that does not rule out the likelihood of misunderstanding. It is very possible to have some differences. Certainly there is never a perfect situation because human-being are fallible creature. We are bound to make error that sometime negate the interest of others, irrespective of the understanding. And for this reason there is chance to correct our mistakes. Since mistakes are quite inevitable. What is important is to correct as appropriate within a reasonable period of time. Practice and embrace the idea of settling differences without a third party.
Peaceful resistance
Because of cordial relationship that subsists between husband and wife, usually there is a peaceful resistance. This kind of resistance does not in anyway indicate confrontation. It is a simple and polite way of rejecting what is onerous to you. You are at liberty to reject what you don’t like. Since you have better understanding of your spouse character, your approach should reflect that. But, normally a kind approach to issues brings solution faster. A peaceful approach is usually efficient and, so it is encouraged
My name is Muyideen Elemoro. I am a Nigerian from Ibeju -Lekki Local government in Lagos State. I reside in Abuja, Nigeria.
I am a retired Civil Servant. Presently, I am a marketer and Blogger.
Essentially I write on marital and other related issues. I engage, as a part-time, in Marriage seminar and other related issues.
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