Patience as a necessary marital tool
Patience is a necessary tool required in trying circumstances. And since there is no perfect circumstance. It, therefore, becomes necessary to embrace it for most situations. In all efforts, a bit of patience is relevant. Otherwise, you may see yourself leaving the queue before it is your turn. So, let’s see what it takes to be a patient person. As a Spouse, it is essentially important to consider the importance of patience in marital life. For it strengthens love.
In all instances what is more important is success. So it is in marital life. And success is not one of those things that come so easily, For it involves a lot of effort and patience. Our marital life, therefore, requires some critical push towards a particular goal. Which obviously is the main target of each and every couple. And what is that? Apparently, it is ” Love”. A substance that is not easy to come by. Of course, people work round the clock to acquire it. Sacrifice is material for any marriage to record success.
In effect, it is encouraging couples should do their best to establish love. And after this, the love needs to be maintained. At ay rate, this aspect needs some marital tools that are necessary for the task. One of the tools is patience. Patience by definition is the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed or anxious. So it takes a lot of maturity to have this quality. Basically, trust is fundamentally important in this aspect. At any rate, considering the importance of patience in marital life and other quality will be attractive. For instance, patience offers you an opportunity to cope with character changes in marital life.
Benefits of embracing patience
The benefit of this quality is that it enables couples to handle issues with maturity. It provides couples with the opportunity to perceive issues in a good direction. For, it is only when you get a clear cut of a situation that you can take the appropriate steps. Patience can make it easier, for you to show understanding. And with an understanding, couples can achieve greatly. This marital tool allows the wife to see things from her husband’s perspective. This way, you know when the spouse does not have money. And when it becomes very necessary to come to your spouse’s assistance. You also have more insight into your spouse’s behaviour. And why he/she does certain things in a particular way. When patience reaches a certain degree, your spouse will see no reason to doubt you. And once doubt is eliminated love waxes stronger and marriage is much healthier
Reaction when a party runs out of patience
Notwithstanding, there is a possibility that one of the parties may have reason to react. Particularly when one is running out of patience. Everything has its elastic limit. So, when a party is becoming exhausted in terms of patience. There is bound to be a reaction. And when it happens irrespective of the extent, it must have a direct impact on love. An embryo that needs to be protected. And not to be affected unceremoniously, otherwise, the entire system will be disturbed. In most cases, an apology such as I am sorry is a good tool to resolve issues.
My name is Muyideen Elemoro. I am a Nigerian from Ibeju -Lekki Local government in Lagos State. I reside in Abuja, Nigeria.
I am a retired Civil Servant. Presently, I am a marketer and Blogger.
Essentially I write on marital and other related issues. I engage, as a part-time, in Marriage seminar and other related issues.
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