To cherish and treasure your spouse in and out is a smart way of holding him/her to yourself. With this, you can be sure that your spouse will always be there for you. Even in your absence, he will not share his love with anyone. Your position in his heart is never shortchanged. However, when you are careless and nonchalant about your spouse, you risk a chance of losing him/her to another lover. Don’t be ignorant of an old saying. What someone is struggling to have could be despised by another person. Surprisingly, a lady you despised is a new thing in the hand of another person. When you finally get a real lover that you care for, the need to always cherish him/her is relevant. By this, love is better enhanced. Do your bit to attract your spouse.
The beginning of cherishing in love is to care for and protect your lover. It is obvious that one gives adequate care to something he cherishes. So in the course of providing care, money and time are major ingredients. On this account, it becomes necessary to secure what you care for. Because it is only when you are careless about something that you don’t bother about its existence. Naturally, people seem not to worry nor dissipate their precious energy on things that do not matter to them. Importantly, making genuine and real protection for spouses involves many things. So the real husbands can afford to go out of their way to protect their wives. And this is because a man is expected to love and cherish his wife unconditionally. Of course, everyone should reciprocate, for the equation to balance.
Spouse care and protection
In effect where a person lacks what it takes to cherish a spouse, then something will soon go wrong. And when it finally happens, it is usually expensive to put things in order. It is preferable to always be a good friend to a pet. Because it can be very sour when it turns against you. Do the right thing on time to guide your precious home. More importantly, marriage does well when care and protection come to play.
For instance, in the course of counseling. A man asked a question concerning his spouse’s character. According to him, his wife always looks at other ladies each time they are together. He said he could not really figure out why she was doing that. But the fact remains that she was not looking at the opposite sex. That could have suggested another meaning. While the discussion was ongoing, a young woman suddenly got up. She said she has a good answer to the question. So I obliged her. In her statement, she made it clear that the man’s wife was simply appreciating another man’s efforts. The ladies she was looking at were being cherished by their spouses. She stressed that appearance ( outfit ) depends on the level of care received from their spouses.
Be concern about your spouse appearance
It is evident that when someone takes good care of his/her spouse, it can be easily noticed. Therefore effort, time, and money expended on one’s spouse can never be in vain. Certainly, beauty speaks for itself. A more concerned wife cares about her spouse’s appearance. “Darling, please change the shirt. It doesn’t match the trousers”. Be concerned about your spouse’s feelings and his/her interest. Occasionally when you notice a lady you admire on account of her outfit, what is proper is to buy similar items for your spouse. Next time you will transfer such admiration to your him/her. Am sure when you do this, he/she will appreciate the gesture. From experience, some ladies are responsible for their spouses’ undies. They always go for the best in their selection, for the arena is private. And it requires maximum care.
Avoid carelessness in love
If you are careless your spouse can easily be attracted to another lover. Never mind, this depends largely on the extent of carelessness. Ladies in most cases prefer guys who care about their well-being. Not only in a love affair, but in all ramifications. Quality attention is inclusive. On the other way, some guys are naturally babies in the hand of their ladies. They also like to be pampered and treated like a pet. Basically, love is all about give and take. Otherwise, it will be one-sided and characterized with blame and doubt. Such love lacks mutual consensus and can give way for unnecessary rift between a couple. In all, what is really important is to always cherish your spouse.
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My name is Muyideen Elemoro. I am a Nigerian from Ibeju -Lekki Local government in Lagos State. I reside in Abuja, Nigeria.
I am a retired Civil Servant. Presently, I am a marketer and Blogger.
Essentially I write on marital and other related issues. I engage, as a part-time, in Marriage seminar and other related issues.
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